”Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you will find that you are left holding only yourself”.
– Leo Buscaglia
”Always kindness prevails. No matter how things appear, nor how humbling a task, nor how unkind they’ve been”.
Men, if you want to become better lovers, know yourselves and don’t hold back in connection. There’s nothing to learn, don’t disperse your energy with different women, hurried and hungry. Satiate yourselves in connecting with yourselves alone. Only then go ready towards a woman with total passion, in fullness within.
Women see everything when you make love. We do not judge your sexual abilities, but we will be rejecting anything less than love. Consciously or not.
Don’t get caught in fear of what you look like as a man. We love you. Just know who you are. That’s all it takes to be the hero, the one, the perfect man.
The deep longing for a being-centered relationship, the aching for a passionately awakened partnership with our beloved, is our primary guide when it is openly felt & welcomed, providing incentive & inspiration for exploring places & patterns in ourselves that we otherwise would likely avoid or only superficially visit.
And it is into these places & patterns, these areas of darkness, pain, & heavy wounding, that we must go if we are to be truly ready for awakened monogamy. This is not some kind of romanticized shadow-work, but rather an odyssey that, asking everything of us, ripens us for a life big enough to include awakened monogamy.
~ Robert Augustus Masters